FRIEND Week 10

It's a simple word, one we use often and yet in the NT it is used to mean so much. If Jesus were to speak about the ultimate idea of love, the ultimate sacrifice, if He were to speak of the greatest thing He could give from His Father, would you think of the word, 'Friend'?

I don't think I would. I might think of a tragic word to convey some ultimate truth, but not friend.

And yet Jesus uses that simple word in John 15.
First He says that the greatest expression of love is to lay down your life for a friend--You are My friend if you do what I command you, John 15.14. He does not say lay down your life for your parent, your spiritual guide or a famous person, but for your friend.


Then Jesus says what makes someone His friend is to obey His commandments. He does not limit that to the Jews, to the religious, to his close friends, or even His followers. Whoever obeys is one of His friends.

In Luke 14 Jesus tells a parable of a king who invited many to a feast, but they would not come, they would not obey the invitation. So he had his servants compel anyone--even the lame, the poor, the crippled, and the blind--who would come to come. Those who obeyed were the friends of the king.

Friendship in the Lord is a special thing.
Jesus says--Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father, who is in heaven, Matt. 7.21.

Once, His mother and brothers came wishing to speak to Jesus. He said--For whoever shall do the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother, Matt. 12.50.


While we might notice the exclusive tone here, we might also notice the family element. Whoever does the will of the Father is the family of Jesus, His mother, brother or sister. This means that anyone, of any tribe, kindred, nation, ethnic group, gender, anyone can be in the family of God.
When Paul wrote the Corinthians the second time, he thought of them as his family. He begins chapter 7 by calling them, 'beloved.' The Greek word is , loved ones. He asks them to make room for him in their hearts, almost as if he were saying, 'make room for me in your house.' He says the Corinthians are in his heart--to die together and to live together, 2 Cor. 7.3.


He says that toward the people at that church, he is filled with comfort and overflowing with joy. And when Titus came, Paul was comforted not only by Titus but also by how the Corinthians treated Titus. He is glad his first letter led the Corinthians from sorrow to repentance to the will of God (there's that obedience again) unto salvation, 2 Cor. 7.9,10.

They are friends.

We don't often think of the apostle Paul as so endearing. We might think of him as the doctrinal giant he was, but he had been brough through doctrine to love. He knew no one could relate to God except through love, which comes in a family.